The process of getting an IUD can be incredibly uncomfortable, and for some, it can even surpass the pain of childbirth. As a Black woman, I felt that my experience and pain were often minimized during discussions with my doctor. This underlines a critical need for greater transparency regarding the discomfort that can accompany IUD insertion.
It took nearly a year for me to fully adjust to having the IUD, but I chose to keep it due to its effectiveness and the convenience of not needing to take a daily pill. Additionally, it helps reduce my risk of cervical cancer, which is particularly significant for me, given my history of high-grade precancerous cells. Just knowing that the IUD is in place brings me a sense of security.
LIN C., 34
New York City
“I found that open communication alleviated my discomfort.”
I first learned about IUDs from my ob-gyn at the age of 23 as an alternative to the Nuvaring. I chose the Mirena IUD for its ease of use and insurance coverage. Even though I felt anxious on the day of insertion, I found that discussing my worries with my doctor helped me cope with the pain.
Later, I switched to Liletta and recently had it removed since my husband and I are planning to start a family. The low-hormone option worked well for me, and I didn’t experience many side effects.
EMILY L., 29
Tallahassee, Florida
“The nurse appeared irritated and attempted to downplay my pain, saying, ‘It’s not that bad.’”
My experience with IUD insertion was marred by severe pain and a dismissive attitude from the nurse. Although my doctor recommended the IUD, the painful insertion and lack of empathy made me decide against using it.
I encourage anyone considering an IUD to do thorough research on their healthcare provider to ensure they receive compassionate and respectful care.
ROSA P., 24
Brooklyn
“I felt compelled to get one to safeguard my future.”
I opted for an IUD to prevent pregnancy and manage period pain and ovarian cysts. Unfortunately, the insertion was uncomfortable, leading to complications such as excessive bleeding and more cyst formation. Subsequent consultations revealed potential side effects that my initial doctor hadn’t mentioned.
Looking back, I felt pressured into getting the IUD for safety and wish I had received more comprehensive information about the risks involved.
Undergoing a distressing experience like IUD insertion can create lingering negative feelings. It’s essential to recognize that not every healthcare professional’s viewpoint is definitive. It’s wise to seek second opinions and find a provider who genuinely listens to your concerns.
Mackenzie D., a 29-year-old from New York City, shared her challenging experiences with IUD insertions, describing the process as almost barbaric. She felt faint and endured significant pain during both procedures. Despite this, she still recommends the IUD to her friends for the benefits she has enjoyed, including lighter periods and minimal side effects.
Maria D., also from New York City, faced a similarly tough time with IUDs. After both Mirena and Skyla insertions, she dealt with intense cramps and discomfort, which her gynecologist dismissed. After a year of unbearable pain, she opted to have the IUD removed. Although she briefly tried another IUD, she ultimately decided to avoid them altogether due to ongoing discomfort.
Mari H., a 37-year-old from Atlanta, dreads the day she will have her IUD removed after a traumatic insertion experience. She likened the pain to what she felt post-birth, but without the relief of an epidural. The absence of preparation and empathy from her healthcare providers left her feeling overwhelmed and unsupported.
These narratives emphasize the importance of self-advocacy and tuning into your body when considering IUDs. While some women report positive experiences, others may endure significant pain and discomfort. It’s vital to ask questions, seek support, and prioritize your own comfort and health. Ultimately, your body deserves to be treated with the utmost care and respect, regardless of what medical professionals may suggest.
